As I mentioned before, I am very concerned about writing Blogs. “Happiness Hunt” is my Digital Platform to share my experience personally as well as technologically. My Tag “Digital Marketing Executive” assists me to think a lot about my Past and builds strength to design my Future. I was screwing my Brain to write a Blog since Yesterday, but I didn’t get a proper title to inscribe. Sometimes I decide to write about “Friendship”, “Current Affairs” or about “Inspiring people and Incidents”. But my mind becomes tired when I think deeper and deeper. LOL. Can I tell the 3 Stages of a Spectator’s Life? I reckon it may be a “Salt and Pepper” part of her Life. Let me narrate with Direct speech for the purpose of Readability.
Stage 1
I was nourished with Love and Care. Not only had my parents, even my relatives liked me for my Softness. Know what, it is certainly because of my Family, my Friends are calling me as “Foodie”. I didn’t know about obesity, good food or a healthy food, whatever my Parents give, I used to have be it a Jilebi, Laddu or Murukku. I also didn’t know that, this overwhelming care will turn me as a Girl with coward attitude and obesity. This coward basement made me to grow as a Girl with reserved attitude. I literally curse some Parents who let the Children to bury their exploration by “framing them into a Circle”. Some example phrases states, “Poochandi”, “Anga Boothamirukku”, "Nee Veetukku Periyava"and so on. Of course, I was one of the losers. When I was at 10th standard, I was 96Kgs and I never thought about “Make up” or “Good look”. When I joined Technical Education, I somehow managed to mingle with the Society, speaking with boys and so on. Still something was missing. Yes, A Good Friend to share my Happiness and Sorrows.
Stage 2
This was a crucial stage of my Life in which I learnt what the Friendship is. I had a limited friends-circle. I was in the critical phase of depression as I didn’t have proper “Designation” and “Source”. I had Good friends with whom I chat and ask suggestions. Sometimes I shared my problems as well. Besides them I had 2 Girls to whom, I was and am the most important companion in their life. The mistake I did was, “I believed that, Friends are the most important chapter in the Book of Life”. Of course, Friends are. Later I recognized, “It is all about priorities”. With an adamant attitude to come out of the self-drawn circle, I left the hometown with a belief, “Things will Change for Better", one day”. Those “Golden friends” paused my Contact. But I trusted that, Friends who wants my Presence will stay back. Girls did. Those 2 Girls are my Beloved ones who still loves me and care for me.
Stage 3
Today, I don’t tell My Life has changed for better, but My Life is still under Construction with Hope, Affection and Care. I am Unique, Just like everyone else and I am not ready to Trust anyone. Also I don’t have a self-drawn circle but the Waves of Happiness!!
She Concluded for Now.
Why Should Girls have Limits? Who is the reason behind her Miseries? Family? or Society?
Stage 1
I was nourished with Love and Care. Not only had my parents, even my relatives liked me for my Softness. Know what, it is certainly because of my Family, my Friends are calling me as “Foodie”. I didn’t know about obesity, good food or a healthy food, whatever my Parents give, I used to have be it a Jilebi, Laddu or Murukku. I also didn’t know that, this overwhelming care will turn me as a Girl with coward attitude and obesity. This coward basement made me to grow as a Girl with reserved attitude. I literally curse some Parents who let the Children to bury their exploration by “framing them into a Circle”. Some example phrases states, “Poochandi”, “Anga Boothamirukku”, "Nee Veetukku Periyava"and so on. Of course, I was one of the losers. When I was at 10th standard, I was 96Kgs and I never thought about “Make up” or “Good look”. When I joined Technical Education, I somehow managed to mingle with the Society, speaking with boys and so on. Still something was missing. Yes, A Good Friend to share my Happiness and Sorrows.
Stage 2
This was a crucial stage of my Life in which I learnt what the Friendship is. I had a limited friends-circle. I was in the critical phase of depression as I didn’t have proper “Designation” and “Source”. I had Good friends with whom I chat and ask suggestions. Sometimes I shared my problems as well. Besides them I had 2 Girls to whom, I was and am the most important companion in their life. The mistake I did was, “I believed that, Friends are the most important chapter in the Book of Life”. Of course, Friends are. Later I recognized, “It is all about priorities”. With an adamant attitude to come out of the self-drawn circle, I left the hometown with a belief, “Things will Change for Better", one day”. Those “Golden friends” paused my Contact. But I trusted that, Friends who wants my Presence will stay back. Girls did. Those 2 Girls are my Beloved ones who still loves me and care for me.
Stage 3
Today, I don’t tell My Life has changed for better, but My Life is still under Construction with Hope, Affection and Care. I am Unique, Just like everyone else and I am not ready to Trust anyone. Also I don’t have a self-drawn circle but the Waves of Happiness!!
She Concluded for Now.
Why Should Girls have Limits? Who is the reason behind her Miseries? Family? or Society?
