The Essence of Friendship

How to be a Good Friend? This topic seems Interesting na? Are you a good Friend of mine? Aur Am I a good friend of you? Which quality let your companion feel possessive on you? Have you ever listed down the Best moments spent together? 

I have lots of Happiness Hunts which made me to roam peacefully and overcome Negativity. Fine,coming to the Topic, I would like to unfold a common doubt, How to become a Good friend?

• Make sure that you solve the Situation which you find something wrong.

• Know when to be Serious and when to be ridiculous.

• Go Miles apart, if your Friends ask for Help.

• Don’t give up your Best friends during their Dark days.

• Make them feel that they are always wanted in your Life.

• Try to understand and Respect your Friend’s boundaries.

• Rescue them in case of Troubles.

• Don’t bring the Uncomfortable talks which they dislike.

• Admit your faults and be Honest.

• Express your Happiness for them.

• Don’t hold grudges over insignificant disagreements.

• Celebrate their Success and be there to support the losses.

Friendship is a powerful weapon which defeated me once in my Life. It took years to understand my Friends, Best Friends and their necessities even the space for me in their Heart. I perceived one thing strongly. The one who likes for who I am will never leave me for granted. Cool!!

A blog is not enough to express my Childishness and Happy moments with my Bestie. We walk, talk, Eat, Pray, Travel and tease each other never leaving a single chance.

We discover each and every moment with Fun and Food. We normally have our favorite food when any of us feel uncomfortable. We find a Comfort and smile in that moment.

Dear readers find the below Tips to avoid in a flourishing Friendship:

• Avoid projecting your Negative qualities on to them.  You are unique just like everyone else.

• Avoid criticizing and Blaming your Friend. Listen them!

• Don’t spend time with them for your Selfish needs. Never give up your Friend!

• Don’t leave your Friend alone in their Bad days.

• Avoid visualizing the situations only from your point of view

My best friend is the one who brings out the best in me. Do you?

Doughnut Hunt

Doughnuts!!

To the World:

A Sweet round Dough garnished with flavored sauces and candies.

But to me:

It is everything!!  Right now, I inscribe my Blog with Mind is full of savory Doughnuts & Doughnut moments.

In the month of December 2013, I had been to Bangalore with my Aunt & Family. Those days you would had seen Stout & Depressive me with lots of dreams! (Jokes apart)

But, I want to make sure one thing, Then and Now, I am a Foodie and I don’t try to change myself, because, favorite food is a good medicine.

We had been to a popular Mall in Bangalore where I and my Blood mate ordered Doughnuts from Krispy Kreme!! I tasted that soft sweet Dough bun for the first time; it was tempting and full flavored. Loved it!

After that, I had Doughnuts in small shops several times which were not satisfying my Expectations. This often happens to me in case of Black forest and Chocolate Cakes as well. But SPI's doughnuts are good and unique!!

Yesterday, I had been to Doughnut House with Bestie to overcome some sort of Head-ache. I was not sure about the shop timings as it was prime time. Usually, that shop will be closed before 9:00 PM. Fortunately, it was opened and we might be the Last Slaves(!!) for that day.

After ordering a Dark chocolate Doughnut and Sandwich, we were discussing about the Family and Friends as usual.

My Joy knew No Bounds when they kept Doughnuts on the Table. (My Heart was asking for another Doughnut but my Mind controlled the Expectations.)

It was a Dark Chocolate Doughnut garnished with Candies. Yummiiee!! Even though the Food habits & savors are not constant, I enjoyed, I lived that happier moment.

It can be a silly or usual thing, but I would like to enjoy each and every moment of my Life!! I did and I will!!

Feeling sick? Have your favorite food!!

Depression Vs Positive Attitude

After a quite long break, I would like to resume my Blog. To me, writing a Blog is the best medicine which hunts my Happiness. I was in the initial level of Stress because of some incidents that happened around me. I was aware of the stress burning solutions too. But I didn’t push myself to come out of it, because I was lacking in sources.

Appa, “I have severe Headache” – I told to my Dad.

“Do you want my support to eradicate your Problems” – He replied.

Amma, “I have Headache”- I told to my Mom too.

“Pack your Bags and come to Home for a Week”

Here is where they stand!! They knew me completely. They are my Best friends to whom I can ring and torture even at 12:00 AM.

Depression develops a negative attitude in us which will pause our thinking Capacity a.ka. Positive Thinking!

Dear girls, whatever your problems are, share with your Parents. They are experienced than us and they share the best solution to overcome our depression.

I personally share my Happiness and tough moments to my Parents and Bestie. But sometimes, I babble too!!

So, How to Overcome Depression?

• Reach out and stay connected with Family and Friends. Their support is essential to come out of the depression and make you feel safe. Why not Caring a pet?

• Engage yourself in social or non-isolated situations.

• List down your Interests and develop your interests as a hobby. In short, do things which you are used to or Interested with.

• Don’t go to bed with depression apart from sleeping hours. A Fatigue mind develops a depressed attitude.

•  Have a healthy diet. Do exercises and Yoga which will keep you energetic throughout the day.

• Walk out in the Sun light in the morning and during the break hours. Get the minimum dosage of Sun light to improve your Mood. The benefits are multiplied when you walk with a Friend.

Finally, don’t give up. Pull out your Depression with Positive People, Positive Thoughts, and Positive Attitude.

Last but not Least, “Believe in your Family. Don’t depend on Strangers turned Friends”.  This is not a negative statement. But, everything has a limit. Your Parents will be there for you anytime and at whatever situation you are. They have toiled a lot to give the Best for you. Some Acquaintances are temporary and the Interns of real Life.

"First thing in the morning, lie on your back with your head hanging over the edge of your bed."

Improvise Adapt and Overcome!!

Pegasus Annotations from Her-2

Hi Buddies I have planned to write the annotations for my Forthcoming story. Here is the Sample!!

Annotation-2:

Almost Girls take a millisecond to tell “I Love You” to her man regardless of summer or winter, Noon or Night!!  

I am a Girl who long for a word from him. The fact is Boys never express their Love in words, but they do express by caring or teasing the Lover.  

Every day I would like to be responsible like my man's mom, of course I know mom’s Love cannot be duplicated or replaced.

"Our Love and our Responsibilities are growing with hope filled Happiness every Second."

That day was another hope filled Good day!! When Elevator opened its door with a mild Bell sound, he left to his floor signing Tata and finally, to my Surprise, he whispered “Love You”. I was deep Frozen and I walked to my Work place with Mind full of Butterflies.

Pegasus Annotations from Her

Hi Buddies I have planned to write the annotations for my Forthcoming story. Here is the Sample!!

Annotation-1:

“When I tell you I love you, I am not saying it out of habit, I am reminding you that you are my life.”

I am a possessive Girl friend who cares to the core. “Did you reach the Room safely?”

“No, I didn’t!” This will be the sarcastic reply.

My Honest request would be “Whatever you wanna do, you do, but inform me.”
His usual reply would be,  “Is it babe? Sorry da”.

I smile.

Teasing each other strengthens our Bond.  I mould my days and I learn the tactics to resolve the trivial issues regularly. I almost transformed myself as an “Easy Going girl” with infinite confidence.

"He discovered an Indespicable Me!!"

Traditional Marketing Still Exists?

I am here to inscribe my next Blog!! I always try to Pen down my Experience in an expressive way. Neither I have more readers nor I have Haters.

Yesterday I had been to “Ice Land”-A Juice shop to have Juice with my Bestie. If we have a plan to out, we prefer to start our Day-Out in Ice Land. It is a Medium-scale Juice shop with numerous Long-term Customers like us. We had ordered 2 “Shamam” (Musk melon) and started exploring about an Island through Google Maps. After 10 minutes the waiter brought 3 Glasses of Musk melon Juice. The fact is, if we order 1 Juice, they will give us 1 and a Half cup of Juice and each Juice costs Rs.45/- with a good savour.

For a Normal Person, let us say, a working professional, 1 and half glass of Juice is adequate to complete his Healthy Lunch or sometimes Brunch.

I could find that the Shop is always filled with Customers for its Hygienic Fruit juice and appreciable Marketing strategy!!

With this, the Shop keeper can get more Profit with long lasting Customers. I reckon, this is a Real-time Example for Traditional marketing.

"You don’t need intelligence to have luck, but you do need luck to have intelligence." 

"Traditional marketing refers to any type of promotion or advertising (non-digitally) that has been used by the Business people to promote their brand for years, and that has a proven success rate."